Each Memorial Day weekend, my family takes a road trip to visit several small-city cemeteries spread across rural, central Utah. My wife comes from a very connected family with strong, inspiring roots in Utah’s pioneer heritage.
It’s common to find other family members (aunts, uncles, cousins, or more distant relatives) also visiting these gravesites. Often, it’s like a miniature, impromptu family reunion!
Several years ago at the Ephraim city cemetery, I happened upon a tombstone that I thought remarkable. Not due to shape, size, color, or age, but due to content . . .
The headstone contains the name of a husband and wife, including all their vital data: birth dates, marriage date, and such. But, I found no mention of death dates for either husband or wife. I expect they are still living.
In a post on a prior blog I once ran, I made mention that this may be the ultimate in planning ahead. I teased about doing the same. I suggested I may start a family tradition. I could take my family to my future gravesite each Memorial Day to insure the tradition becomes deep rooted (excuse the pun).
Well, time passes and now I have a new hobby. Each Memorial Day, I photograph this headstone. The above image is my favorite from this year’s batch.
Motivated by several of the photo essays I’ve recently published, I was determined to work this subject to better distill its essence and convey an appropriate mood.
This year, I was fortunate to find surrounding gravesites far more colorful than in prior years. I recognized this as a significant difference and, thus, it became the essence I wanted to convey.
The task became how to incorporate the flowers on surrounding graves into my image and still demonstrate a sense of intimacy. I wanted to create a graceful, almost elegant image that would tug gently at a viewer’s heartstrings.
I’m very pleased with how beautifully this year’s image turned out. I feel it strikes an appropriate balance between reverence, intimacy, and optimism.
In fact, as I write this, I’m moved to make a gift of this image to the family. If any reader happens to know this family, please direct them to me and I will prepare a fine-art print of this image and give it to them.
Thanks,
-Mike.