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Fishing for Fun and Personal Growth

Thursday, March 12th, 2009

While reading in my journal, I came upon an entry wherein I’d written about a former co-worker who loved to fish.  Although this story dates back to mid 2006, I thought it worth sharing.  I’ve elaborated on it, here, for your enjoyment.  I think this gentleman had a keen perspective on things . . .

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The other day, I had a guy from our Information Technology group (IT) in to work on a computer in my group. While working on the system, we chatted. He mentioned that he loves to fish. He paused, peering ponderously into some inner place I could not see. Then, correcting himself, he restated: “I do love to fish, but one day I’d like to catch.”

He clarified. He said he fishes for the simple pleasure of fishing. He enjoys everything about it. He’s a relatively new fisherman with lots to learn; however, even without the immediate rewards of a bounteous catch, he continues to fish with passion. His goal is to one day catch his limit; however, he said that goal won’t get in the way of his enjoying the fishing.

These words struck me with all the strength of truth revealed!

What a well-stated thesis on life . . . I love the process of living, with all its required regimen of routine. I love getting up in the morning. I love stressing over money matters. I love dreading the dentist. I love the kids’ commitments to sports and other activities. I love putting the cat out! And, perhaps most of all, I love those occasional quiet moments when God whispers, “All is well” and I can smile into a sunrise with my sweetheart standing steady at my side.

I’ve heard it said many times, the joy in living is found along the way – not at some preconceived point of arrival. Life’s a journey, not a destination.

Fishing, as my friend from the IT department taught me, is truly a metaphor for life.

Thanks, Jefferson!

-Mike.

Look, Ma! No Sqeeky Toy . . .

Monday, February 16th, 2009

fb07l3-07cThis is the first time I’ve photographed my mom since the passing of my father, last summer.  It was fun to work with her, again.  It was better, still, to see her smiling so broadly!  (I didn’t even have to use the sqeeky toy!  Well, I had to threaten once.)

I guess that’s the role of a mother: to laugh at her son’s lame attempts at humor.   None the less, I do like seeing her smile.

She turned 78 in February.  Although life has dealt her a difficult hand, she has never once given up.  Some say she’s had reason to stop trying, confine herself to a wheelchair, or to have a bitter attitude; however, that’s not her way.  She has survived cancer, multiple joint replacements, ulcers, and a bag full of other nasty stuff.

This women is my inspiration.  She’s taught me, by example, to work through obstacles without feeling sorry for myself.  To keep my faith, trust in the goodness of my fellowman, and live as I know I should.

She honored me by spending a few moments in front of my camera.  These few words, here, are simply my latest attempt to honor her.

Happy Birthday, Dad!

Wednesday, October 1st, 2008
Today, my dad would have turned ninety one . . .
Age 90

Age 90

He passed away, earlier this year, in June. I had the honor of photographiing him one last time in April, 2008. Although he is greatly missed by his children and grandchildren, alike, we all know it was his time to go.

My dad was more than my father: he was my best friend. Much of what I am in life, I owe to him.

This is just a simple note to my father, to say: Thanks, dad. I will be eternally grateful for your example.

Age 25

Age 25

You taught me what it is to truly be a gentle man. This is the most commonly voiced eulogy I’ve heard from others since your passing: your father was truly a gentle man. I have taken note, dad, and I understand the lesson.

I thank you for your friendship, your encouragement, and moral support. I look forward to exchanging stories with you, once again, in future times . . .

Happy birthday, dad!


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